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Comments on The Comments About Divorce

Sometimes I forget that I was ever separated and divorced. In all honestly, sometimes I forget I was ever married before. This makes sense. It’s the way things should be. I’ve been with Scott for almost six years now; much longer than I was ever with my first husband. Scott and I have a much…

Thanks

My hands smell like cider, oranges and cloves, thanks to the brine I’ve finished making for this year’s turkey. Our first turkey. We’re hosting Thanksgiving for my family this year. I have an apron on. I have, admittedly, underestimated the undertaking this would be, despite my prep and planning. When I dumped that 20-pound bird…

Points, Schmoints

Sometimes I eat something for which the amount of work it would take to ascertain the Weight Watchers Points would almost count as activity points.

Colic. Ugh.

Sigh. She has colic. Darn it.

A Different Perspective

This morning I received this note from an old friend who, after reading my blog and expressing her sadness that things had not worked out with us and our OB-GYN, chimed in on a topic close to her:  “I do feel, however, that I need to defend Northwestern after reading your last post.  As someone who is…

OMG

I just broke another tooth, sitting here at my desk, working and sucking on an Altoid. Not even chomping on it. Thankfully it wasn’t a huge ordeal, and certainly not an emergency, but ARE YOU KIDDING ME? My daughter is going to be so incredibly embarrassed by her mother’s antics as it is. Now she’ll…

Boom

Today I fell right in the middle of Rush Street downtown. In front of a group of coworkers. I sort of knew this would happen – I am not graceful under normal circumstances, much less pregnant ones. I managed to fall on my knee, and then roll to the left, avoiding my belly, so no…

Comments!

Hey everyone! I just got an email letting me know that comments here have been screwed up for the past couple of days. My over-exuberant attempt to thwart spammers and mean, jerky people backfired a bit. (Totally don’t mind lively discussion, or different opinions, but if you come here and feel compelled to insult me,…

Most Embarrassing Pregnancy Experiences…

Last night I had to enlist my husband for a task that I never, ever considered would enter into our marriage, though I suppose I knew in some small way that if I became pregnant the intimacy of our relationship would be taken to a whole new level. It’s unavoidable. Sometimes I look at the…

The Bad Days

I think the joy about adulthood isn’t the dessert for dinner or watching TV for hours on end on Saturday, though those things are pretty awesome. (As an aside, doing the things I desperately wished my parents would have let me do as a kid has never once gotten old. Seriously. And I’m going to…

Things That Have Been Awesome

1) Stacy’s Pita Chips, cinnamon and sugar. I had these over the weekend as a mid-day snack during our hypnobirthing class. Holy wow. Delightful. We went to Target and bought two bags. 2) Hypnobirthing class. It could not have been more wonderful to devote three hours to being pregnant, having a baby and all that…

Thanks

A huge thanks to all of you who have been reading and commenting and sharing the post about women, babies, parenting and choices. Your kind words and support are so reassuring and lovely. Mostly, thanks for sharing your personal stories, all of which give credence to why it’s important to be mindful and gracious and…

Why I Can’t Make Mom Friends

Thanks to my friend, Rachelle, for this. Thought you’d all like it.